"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First Date

JoesphBrown

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Hey guys so I went on a first date with a girl we went to a movie cause I worked so late, (that was on monday) we held hands and then made out when I dropped her off.

Anyways she seemed into making out I pulled away first and she tried to go back in for it again, however when I tried texting her a couple days later it was completely dry and when I asked her to hangout again she gave me the lamest excuse ever of "im tired"

Whats going on here and any advice how I should play this? Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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skinnyguy

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It seems like she has options and you don't. Don't worry about it too much. Talk to other girls and just have fun.
 

pyros

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this is how modern women act nowadays.

They can be into you one day, and the next day they don't give a fvck. It doesnt matter if you made out, held hands, or had sex.

Sad but true.
 

backseatjuan

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No shit! It's how modern women act, and she has options! No buddy, it's you! She was ready for sex right then and there, and you played hard to get, kinda telling her slow down ho, I'm not an easy boy.
 

stevo

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backseatjuan said:
No shit! kinda telling her slow down ho, I'm not an easy boy.
People looking at me like I've lost my mind when I burst out laughing after reading this.

No sheet OP.

If you've contacted her to hang and she gives excuse, no worries.

If she contacts you in the next 4days awesome if not hit her up again and ask her out, if she gives another excuse, forget about it. If she agrees you better Fcuk her
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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