“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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superwicky

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Basically there is this girl that i really like. The only problem is that i never get a chance to talk to her. She takes completely different subjects to me which means that our free periods are at different times. I have spoken to her a few times but never for long. I was thinking about asking her on a date but I am not sure what she would say. Any advice?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

devilkingx2

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asking out a girl you barely know and barely talk to is probably the worst idea on the subject of high school dating I've ever heard.
 

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Get her phone number and social media names. The girl I'm after actually has no phone, she uses her iPad for everything. So I signed up for WeChat, a messaging/calling app that the Asian students use to get out of roaming fees. Schedule a meeting someplace.
 

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devilkingx2 said:
asking out a girl you barely know and barely talk to is probably the worst idea on the subject of high school dating I've ever heard.
I'm with devilking on this one.

I used to go up to random girls I didn't even know on campus whom I found attractive and ask them out as a way to get over my approach anxiety and not to necessarily "get them." It was very stressful for me especially when I didn't have any friends with the same mentality for support. But if you want to succeed, you need to do small talk. Keep trying to talk to her on those basic school subjects and you two will end up becoming a little bit more comfortable with each other. Once you get to that point, THEN ask her out.
 
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