"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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First Date

superwicky

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Basically there is this girl that i really like. The only problem is that i never get a chance to talk to her. She takes completely different subjects to me which means that our free periods are at different times. I have spoken to her a few times but never for long. I was thinking about asking her on a date but I am not sure what she would say. Any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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asking out a girl you barely know and barely talk to is probably the worst idea on the subject of high school dating I've ever heard.
 

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Get her phone number and social media names. The girl I'm after actually has no phone, she uses her iPad for everything. So I signed up for WeChat, a messaging/calling app that the Asian students use to get out of roaming fees. Schedule a meeting someplace.
 

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devilkingx2 said:
asking out a girl you barely know and barely talk to is probably the worst idea on the subject of high school dating I've ever heard.
I'm with devilking on this one.

I used to go up to random girls I didn't even know on campus whom I found attractive and ask them out as a way to get over my approach anxiety and not to necessarily "get them." It was very stressful for me especially when I didn't have any friends with the same mentality for support. But if you want to succeed, you need to do small talk. Keep trying to talk to her on those basic school subjects and you two will end up becoming a little bit more comfortable with each other. Once you get to that point, THEN ask her out.
 
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