"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Her parents are super strict, and so far it looks like all she can do is go to the base gym with me. What do I do? the gym seems like a weird place to date someone.
I'm trying to close with a kiss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gym can be awesome. Any kind of sports you do together makes you feel good, relaxed, and your mind connects the feeling with the other person.

Ever walked next to your date, felt completely at ease and relaxed, and you could do anything? You can get this after doing sports together.
 
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What if you're not good at any other sport but boxing?
She's good at basketball and I suck, but I guess it would be fun and give her something to laugh at.
 
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Would she ever be able to see you be good at boxing? It would be a good moment, you could always credit the adrenaline, and there's a more spontaneous feel.

Or would she be interested in learning how to box at all? Those dates can come off cheesy and condescending, but if she's already expressed an interest in learning then that works.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kevin1198 said:
What if you're not good at any other sport but boxing?
She's good at basketball and I suck, but I guess it would be fun and give her something to laugh at.
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Nooo.. Don't let her laugh AT you. Good path straight into the infamous FRIENDZONE.
 
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