"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wilson_Aus

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Hey everyone. I need some help. After a few weeks of working up the courage to ask this girl out we decide to go to a Rock concert.

Anyway I have no idea what we should do there, apart from listening to the music. I dont want to spend hours not talking and just listening. Got any ideas on what I could do?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pick up her 1-2 hours before the concert,you can walk around,go for a drink and etc.To the same after the concert. On the concert itself the only thing you can do is to hug her or to hold her by the hand :)

Good luck buddy!
 

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i managed to dance through a whole 311 set. i think as long as its not like death-metal you'll be able to dance well. have fun with it though, if you have fun you know damn well she is.
 

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Smile at hr aswell an tell her she looks nice....

You can play it aswell if you want, say something like 'u kno i requested this song for you' or somehtin like that, might make her laugh?!?!
 
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