First date with girls from the internet.

[AlmostThere!]

When I meet girls in social settings and then go out with them on a date at a later time, I'm much more relaxed and kino a lot.

But when I meet a girl from the net, our first "date" is more like just having a conversation. I make them laugh but I usually do the whole coffee or lunch date which doesn't offer much opportunity for physical contact.

And when the date is over, it feels weird (for me) to kiss them.

I don't know what it is about meeting girls from the net (I don't use dating websites)... should I be just as forward with a chick as if I met her in the club, or is playing it safe and just seeing each other in person is okay?

 

[AlmostThere!]

Does anyone have an answer?

 

[slaog]

When I meet girls in social settings and then go out with them on a date at a later time, I'm much more relaxed and kino a lot.

But when I meet a girl from the net, our first "date" is more like just having a conversation. I make them laugh but I usually do the whole coffee or lunch date which doesn't offer much opportunity for physical contact.

And when the date is over, it feels weird (for me) to kiss them.

I don't know what it is about meeting girls from the net (I don't use dating websites)... should I be just as forward with a chick as if I met her in the club, or is playing it safe and just seeing each other in person is okay?

Making women feel attracted to you is the same everywhere.


When meeting off the internet theres alot more nerves involved and if 2 people are nervous it makes things worse. Its up to you to be sexual and behave like you normally do. If you're not nervous and being confident it'll make the girl less nervous and feel better about you.


Playing safe = AFC.

 

[AlmostThere!]

Making women feel attracted to you is the same everywhere.


When meeting off the internet theres alot more nerves involved and if 2 people are nervous it makes things worse. Its up to you to be sexual and behave like you normally do. If you're not nervous and being confident it'll make the girl less nervous and feel better about you.


Playing safe = AFC.

Okay. I will let my sexual beast (or at least show her I'm sexual) when I meet her to avoid any potential FZ.

 

[Kailex]

I've met quite a few women online... and I'll tell you right now, the best online date I've had so far, was the one where I did the MOST amount of kino. Of course, you get to talk to the person a few times via email/phone before you actually meet, so there's a little more rapport.

I had a few awkward dates, that were terrible.

But just this past Sunday, I had the best date ever, both online and non-online. I pretty much had established C+F before the actual meet-up, so it was easy to transition to kino for the date.

Again, don't let opportunities slide just because it's an online date.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

I had a very interesting online dating experience recently, whose details I won't go into depth, but more or less I'm believing now I'd rather meet people through my day-to-day life. We spend enough time online as it is, and I'd like to get to know someone's real energy, not their fictionalized or filtered online personas.

Biggest suggestion from my personal experience online dating: use online meeting places to setup a physical encounter as soon as possible. Don't waste time making a new chat partner -- or phone partner -- because it can be a let down if you don't connect to them physically (ie, find them attractive). There is a balance between the physical and mental, both are important, but all of your energy in either will likely not last long. Online dating can be great connecting with a mind -- but is the mental compatibility matched by physical?