"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First date went well, now silence

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You are confusing all of that with sexual attraction. None of that other stuff matters if she doesn't feel sexually attracted to you. That other stuff is like a cherry on top of the sundae, not the sundae.
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Well out of 10 of the girls I’ve banged so far, NONE of them have shown me sexual attraction on the first date, so
 

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Well out of 10 of the girls I’ve banged so far, NONE of them have shown me sexual attraction on the first date, so
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Getting results does not equal getting optimal results. Don't confuse the two.

You will find over the course of doing that long enough that if you continue along that path you'll be swimming upstream. Go with the current.

Being reserved works if they are into you but you are losing out on most bangs where they are on the fence and could go either way. And by and in large, that is the biggest segment of women you'll be meeting in your life.
 
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Getting results does not equal getting optimal results. Don't confuse the two.

You will find over the course of doing that long enough that if you continue along that path you'll be swimming upstream. Go with the current.

Being reserved works if they are into you but you are losing out on most bangs where they are on the fence and could go either way. And by and in large, that is the biggest segment of women you'll be meeting in your life.
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I’m not reserved on the first date, I’m being myself, which also means not aggressive in pursuing a kiss rightaway; it’s not in my nature. If I were to do that, it’d be forcing it and it would fail.
 
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