I recently posted a thread about me messing up on first dates frequently. Anyway Ive been speaking to this chick I met online recently. We chatted for a bout 2 weeks before meeting. Seemed to have lots in common, similar interests and generally got on well. Mostly txting with the occasional phonecall.
The reason we chatted for a couple of weeks before meeting (not usually my style to chat to a girl for weeks before meeting) was because shes a single mum who struggles to find a babysitter. She said she was keen to meet but it may take her a while to find a babysitter as she had used up all her 'babysitting allowance' with friends/family etc. So two weeks later we end up going on our first date, which was last Monday.
Considering Ive been screwing up first dates recently (since devloping problems with anxiety Ive found dating a lot more difficult than in the past) this one actually went very well. I was calm, relaxed and generally cool about it all. We went to a bar and spent hours there chatting, she seemed to be enjoying herself, conversation flowed well and body language from her was responsive. I initiated KINO a few times and she responded well to it. At the end of the date she gave me a small peck on the lips and said she 'Hopes to see me again soon'.
The next day I texted her (I know this was a mistake and I should have waited for her to contact me) saying I enjoyed lastnight. She txted back saying I was 'good company' and she enjoyed herself. We had a short back and forward text conversation and I said we should do it again soon. She told me that it wont be 'anytime soon' as she will be struggling to find a babysitter but that she wont 'rule it out' for the future. I responded by telling her I understand and its cool whenever she is free to get in touch.
This was 5 days ago and had no contact from her at all since then, nothing at all. Ive not texted her or made any attempt at contact. The date seemed to go well and she wasnt in any hurry to leave or anything (we stayed out till 2am). So guys what do you think happened here? Is she not interested or just playing hard to get? I figure its probably the former.
Ive obviously got other plates Im spinning so if its time to delete her number and forget about her thats fine with me.
The reason we chatted for a couple of weeks before meeting (not usually my style to chat to a girl for weeks before meeting) was because shes a single mum who struggles to find a babysitter. She said she was keen to meet but it may take her a while to find a babysitter as she had used up all her 'babysitting allowance' with friends/family etc. So two weeks later we end up going on our first date, which was last Monday.
Considering Ive been screwing up first dates recently (since devloping problems with anxiety Ive found dating a lot more difficult than in the past) this one actually went very well. I was calm, relaxed and generally cool about it all. We went to a bar and spent hours there chatting, she seemed to be enjoying herself, conversation flowed well and body language from her was responsive. I initiated KINO a few times and she responded well to it. At the end of the date she gave me a small peck on the lips and said she 'Hopes to see me again soon'.
The next day I texted her (I know this was a mistake and I should have waited for her to contact me) saying I enjoyed lastnight. She txted back saying I was 'good company' and she enjoyed herself. We had a short back and forward text conversation and I said we should do it again soon. She told me that it wont be 'anytime soon' as she will be struggling to find a babysitter but that she wont 'rule it out' for the future. I responded by telling her I understand and its cool whenever she is free to get in touch.
This was 5 days ago and had no contact from her at all since then, nothing at all. Ive not texted her or made any attempt at contact. The date seemed to go well and she wasnt in any hurry to leave or anything (we stayed out till 2am). So guys what do you think happened here? Is she not interested or just playing hard to get? I figure its probably the former.
Ive obviously got other plates Im spinning so if its time to delete her number and forget about her thats fine with me.
