"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey guys. I met this girl online couple of days ago and I decided to take her out for something fun. I though of taking her to a movie but I feel it will be a bad idea since we have not met yet and that we would like to use the opportunity to get to know each other a bit more. Do you all have a suggestion whether taking her to a movie is a good idea? Also, I thought of getting her a flower or something but just don't know the kind to get since this is going to be my REAL first date. Or perhaps the flower idea is bad altogether. Let me know what to do. Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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no flower, no movie...

take her to get coffee, or on a walk in the park, hockey game etc...
 
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Originally posted by speedo_meme
no flower, no movie...

take her to get coffee, or on a walk in the park, hockey game etc...
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I completely agree with this. Your first date should be used to get to know your partner a lot better. I always go with a coffee shop or some place that is cheap and good to chat. Remember, think of the first date like a job interview. Your the boss and she is the applicant. Either she passes or gets cut...your choice. Remember, you want to show her that she is the lucky one to be asked out and that you know what you want. And to answer your other question, no roses or flowers. Remember, she is the one being interviewed, not you. Save the flowers for a relationship, definetely not for a first date (makes you look desperate). Remember, your interviewing HER so be confident and you'll soon come to find out she'll want you even more. Luck to you!
 
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Thanks

Thanks for the advice. It never occure to me to consider 1st date like an interview. I certainly will apply your principles on this first date and I will get back with you all how things go.
 
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can't go wrong with Chuck-E-Cheese. i'm dead serious. or pick her up in a rented U-Haul truck and don't say a word about it...not a peep...not a smile....nothing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We all agreed to not take her to a movie and completely wipe-out the flower idea. The U-haul idea is what I don't get. First off, it is coatly to rent a u-haul than a regular automobile. Secondly, I don't have that much of experience with dating thing to go on first date in a u-haul. The idea looks cool though. I remember Ray(LL cool J) did similar thing in "deliver Us from Eva". I don't have his kind of game yet.
 
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seriously don't waste your money on flowers right away. i used to bring all my girls flowers all the time. though i did get some action and in most cases didn't mind doing it, the more i look back on it it was a huge waste of money. girls would rather get flowers when they are least expecting it. don't spend much on a first date either. i used to always do that to make a good impression. in some cases i am not sure if the girls liked me for me or the lifestyle i lead. start by doing something cheap and see how it goes from there.
 
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