"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino

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Could you tell a girl during the first date: hb; so what do you like to do? DJgambino: you know what babygirl.. With a c'ckysmile let her guess (sex) then basically tell her your the best in bed, and that you could give her the best night ever.. Ye for sure you set the tone first and lead the convo playfully to this subject.

Thoughts? Def gonna whisper that to a plate I'm going out with ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's a first date, and she's a plate. That doesn't compute. She's only a plate after you've ****ed her at least twice. Regarding the sexual intent statement. Yes, that's an important directive to put out there right away to avoid friendzone or strong LMR.

GL ;)
 

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On the first or second date I never verbally mention sex but you physically do things to imply them. Otherwise you might activate ASD. Kino, kiss, escalate, keep your mouth shut.
 

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Uncharted said:
On the first or second date I never verbally mention sex but you physically do things to imply them. Otherwise you might activate ASD. Kino, kiss, escalate, keep your mouth shut.

I second this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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