“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NewMike

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Ok, i've read numerous places that one should NEVER ask about ex's and sexual past, especially in the first date or 2.

Now, in the past 3 months, i've probably been on 15+ first dates with different women, and 90% of the time I get one of those questions (sometimes all of them).

The last one, the girl asked me about number of partners, number of ex's, ONS, etc.

What do you make of this? I never mention it until the females bring it up, but it ALWAYS gets brought up.

Anyone else have similar experiences?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah, evade the question. It's a test, and you fail it by giving them the information they want. Be mysterious and keep your sexual past to yourself. Ask them if they like you. They will inevitably answer in the affirmative. Then grin and say that's what matters. You can play around and exaggerate (i.e. "Not too many. A few hundred here and there."). Don't ever answer the question about numbers and sex.

If the question is about past relationships, keep the answer brief and never talk bad about your ex. Always talk well of her, and explain the breakup with something like: "We just weren't right for each other."
 
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Originally posted by NewMike
Ok, i've read numerous places that one should NEVER ask about ex's and sexual past, especially in the first date or 2.

Now, in the past 3 months, i've probably been on 15+ first dates with different women, and 90% of the time I get one of those questions (sometimes all of them).

The last one, the girl asked me about number of partners, number of ex's, ONS, etc.

What do you make of this? I never mention it until the females bring it up, but it ALWAYS gets brought up.

Anyone else have similar experiences?
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Under what context? Are things going well, and then they ask you? Is it a boring date, and then they are asking you?
 
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ive learned from David Deangleo that you should never give a direct answer to things. for ex: Where do you work? You: in the sewer. try to think of something funny to say instead of revealing "the truth".
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by NewMike
This last time things went VERY well.

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Then the "ex" question may be a good thing. Your date might want to know that if you're a good catch, then why did things not work out.

Still, I don't think it is a good idea to tell right away. Make her curious, and make her wonder.

Out of curiousity, how did you deal with these questions and how did they react?
 
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