"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First Date Question.

Lost1

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So I have been set up with a hottie tommarow night. I am contomplating postponing it. However if I do not end up postponing I have a question on how to give some hints to make this girl go dutch on this first date. I really dont wanna pay for her azz on this first date im not quite sure she is worth my money. HAHA so anything thing u got would be great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DisobeyThePope

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say something like "the last girl i dated didn't want to pay for anything so i had to punch her really hard in the c unt and it was a bloody mess because she was on the rag"
 

Lost1

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LMFAO thats hilarious. Yet disturbing
 

Lost1

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its commin quick nobody has nothin?
 

Warlord

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Uh, first dates are supposed to be cheap and yes you're supposed to be paying for most of it. Now you're trying to weasel out of it, you might as well cancel but then again that may or may not put you in a worser light.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blinkwatt

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Just pay for her food at dinner if you go that,and say something like"I payed for dinner toots,get the tip for me". Other then that you should not be paying for anything.
 
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