First Date Question

[Paris1968]

SO - set up the date and going tonight.

Female friend of mine just said something interesting though: says I need to have a plan or at least be aware of this. That if I like her and want to see her again, I should avoid hitting it tonight. And if she does come on strong and want that, it's likely a sign that she's not that into another date and it's one-and-done.

She says men don't play the game the same way women do, and it's a damned shame, cause things'd be so much simpler.

Thoughts?

 

[Iceberg]

Thoughts?

Yeah, I have a thought:

Why are you even THINKING about that nonsense? Go on your f**king date and have fun.

...god...seriously? You're worried about the "rules" that some female friend established? She probably read that sh!t in Cosmopolitan. Who cares. Go on your damn date and don't come back until you do.

Christ.

 

[Robert28]

here's another thought. if you want to completely screw the pooch and screw this date up, then take the advice of your woman friend....or ANY woman for that matter when it comes to dating. if you want to hit it off with this girl, have a good time, and want to see her again then listen to YOURSELF and just remember that she's going out with you for a reason. girls don't go on dates with guys they aren't interested in potentially(or at least most don't, there's some weird fools out there). now all you have to do is keep/get her interest in you even higher and go with it.

 

[Paris1968]

THAT'S WHAT I SAID.

Thanks guys. LMAO

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Yeah, I have a thought:

Why are you even THINKING about that nonsense? Go on your f**king date and have fun.

...god...seriously? You're worried about the "rules" that some female friend established? She probably read that sh!t in Cosmopolitan. Who cares. Go on your damn date and don't come back until you do.

Christ.

Listen to this man here.

You know, my female friend says if she bats her eye lashes twice, but once before a sip and once after, it means she's subconsciously horny and wants you, while if she blinks only once, she may just see you as a friend.


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MAN don't believe any of this bullshiz!! Do what feels right! Don't let your female friend be on this date with her...let YOU be on this date with her..YOU attracted her..YOU set this up..now YOU ride the horse and manage the journey son...YOU GOT THIS.

Don't overthink it.

Stop thinking of it ENTIRELY right now.

Say to yourself "Tomorrow is going to be a great fvcking night and I'm going to show her the TIME OF HER LIFE"--she never knew a trivia night could be so enjoyable...THIS should be your attitude, she's lucky to get to spend time with you and you'll do great brotha!! Don't pull a me and get too mentally tripped up son! It just breeds confusion and weird action! Just go with it!