Glassguy
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1.) Join me for a drink
2.) Join me for a drink
3.) Join me for a drink
4.) "Im going to grab a drink at such and such place on Tuesday evening. You should join me" lol.
Too many threads on here about what to do on a first date. I like to keep it simple and just invite her to do one of the 4 things above lol.
Think about this:
1.) You want to keep it simple. Give yourself an option to bail in case there is no vibe. You can easily do this when you just meet for a drink. You do not want to be stuck in something that is going to last 1-2 hours and be a prisoner to the date if things arent going well.
2.) You want to keep it cheap. Thats right.....CHEAP. This woman has done NOTHING yet to earn an expensive dinner, horseback riding, skydiving, a concert, sporting event, etc. You can do those things later to REWARD a chick for good behavior.
3.) This is possibly the most important- You want to start out simple and cheap so if there is a good vibe and you both want to see each other again, she isnt expecting some over the top date. If you start with something over the top, you are inviting her to go out with you again for the event, not necessarily to spend more time with you. If you start with meeting for a drink you can always do something more later on if things are working out (1-2 months) but she wont be expecting a $75 meal like a gold digger. No woman is going to waste her time over a drink if she isnt really that into you, but plenty will show up to get that prime rib or filet if the tab is on you, knowing d@mn well she isnt going to ever sleep with you.
Keep it simple. You are laying the ground work for future dates and you do not want to attract gold diggers.
One alternative that I will do on a SECOND date is invite them to shoot a couple games of pool and enjoy a drink or two there. Again, its not the first date option and it still gives me an easy way out to cut the second date short if things arent working out.
Happy Hunting.
2.) Join me for a drink
3.) Join me for a drink
4.) "Im going to grab a drink at such and such place on Tuesday evening. You should join me" lol.
Too many threads on here about what to do on a first date. I like to keep it simple and just invite her to do one of the 4 things above lol.
Think about this:
1.) You want to keep it simple. Give yourself an option to bail in case there is no vibe. You can easily do this when you just meet for a drink. You do not want to be stuck in something that is going to last 1-2 hours and be a prisoner to the date if things arent going well.
2.) You want to keep it cheap. Thats right.....CHEAP. This woman has done NOTHING yet to earn an expensive dinner, horseback riding, skydiving, a concert, sporting event, etc. You can do those things later to REWARD a chick for good behavior.
3.) This is possibly the most important- You want to start out simple and cheap so if there is a good vibe and you both want to see each other again, she isnt expecting some over the top date. If you start with something over the top, you are inviting her to go out with you again for the event, not necessarily to spend more time with you. If you start with meeting for a drink you can always do something more later on if things are working out (1-2 months) but she wont be expecting a $75 meal like a gold digger. No woman is going to waste her time over a drink if she isnt really that into you, but plenty will show up to get that prime rib or filet if the tab is on you, knowing d@mn well she isnt going to ever sleep with you.
Keep it simple. You are laying the ground work for future dates and you do not want to attract gold diggers.
One alternative that I will do on a SECOND date is invite them to shoot a couple games of pool and enjoy a drink or two there. Again, its not the first date option and it still gives me an easy way out to cut the second date short if things arent working out.
Happy Hunting.
