"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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first date on valentines day

thekcguyme

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Ok so I just got this chicks number today and saturday is valentines day. I know you not suppose to call the girl's phone right away, but I would like to take her out on valentines day if thats even possible. She was suppose to go out this past weekend, but her kid was sick. So she is definetly ready to make up for not getting to go out. Should I wait a few days and hope she doesn't get a date by saturday or what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MisterMcGee

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"and hope she doesn't get a date by saturday or what?"
lol 'hope' she doesn't get a date?
I have a few girls I could ask out for valentines on a first date, but I'm choosing not to because I feel valentines week is a bad time to set a first date. Just say youre busy and set it for next week
 

J Roc

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v-day is a very bad day for a date. dont do it! go out to a bar with your buddies instead and you will get a bunch of numbers and hat night and possibly take a girl home.
 

Crazy Asian

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could someone explain why v day is a bad date day?
 

MisterMcGee

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valentines day is for couples. going on a first-ish date with someone on couples-day is just awkward for me.
"Why not the week later? Why not the week before? Why am I choosing valentines day as the day to go on a first date with a certain girl?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Leporello

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Why not Friday?
 

HolyG

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if you take a single girl out on a date on v-day she will not turn you down. are you guys crazy. v-day = whatever you want.
 

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V-Day 08 I asked my FB of 8 months out on an exclusive date. She called to ask me to a get-together for singles and I asked her if she would like to go out with me instead, then maybe swing by to hang out a bit. She said that was what she secretly wanted all along and said yes. We will be celebrating our one year anniversary Saturday Night.

But yea, single girls love to have someone on V-Day. It validates them. No girl wants to be alone on that day....PERIOD! You shouldn't wait. Ask her out.
 

MisterMcGee

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We're talking about FIRST DATES here. Don't change the subject.
 
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Im debating on this question also, **** it ill ask some random chick tomorrow maybe 2 or 3 maybe 4 and post the results
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thekcguyme

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Well I have two possible dates for that day. One of them I have went out with twice before, but she is in the hospital right now and don't know when she will be out. I've had an amazing time each time i've gone out with her. This other chick seems really nice and funny. Should I go out with both on different days?
 
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