“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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First date. No kiss.

mustfirstregister

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Went on a first date with girl. She is OK with hand holding, touching, hand around her shoulder/waist. She is not OK with kissing, tried a few times but not luck. Tried to move her to my place. She says she doesn't know me well and she says it is not that I don't trust you.

Any ideas what to do?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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mustfirstregister said:
Went on a first date with girl. She is OK with hand holding, touching, hand around her shoulder/waist. She is not OK with kissing, tried a few times but not luck. Tried to move her to my place. She says she doesn't know me well and she says it is not that I don't trust you.

Any ideas what to do?
Typical girl stuff. Just be patient she will come around. Withdraw attention from time to time and go after other girls so you aren't so obsessed with her.
 

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I hope she's younger than 18 cause if not it doesnt sound good for you.
I would not text her again UNLESS SHE TEXTS YOU FIRST
 

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Dunno her age. It's been happening a lot lately. I had 4 different dates that happened the same thing.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Dunno her age. It's been happening a lot lately. I had 4 different dates that happened the same thing.
4 different dates? You aren't building enough attraction. A girl who is interested in you isn't going to turn down the opportunity to be alone with you in private.
 
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