"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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First date making the connection?

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So weve I have been talking to a woman online and finally we are going to have a date in 2 weeks... The questions on my mind are that I hear that to make a connection that each person needs a physical and mental connection. Without both nothing moves forward. So lets talk guys...
Firstly I want to wear some nice clothes be groomed and looks the best I can..
How do we make a mental connection? Is physical simply the fact we like their looks? How do we give it the best chance?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You sound more interested in impressing her than trying to find a connection.

A connection means you have fun on the date, and you find her attractive. If you wouldnt rather be somewhere else, and you would **** her, then there is a connection. Who cares what she thinks.

Stop thinking, its her that has to impress you. She is the one that has to show off her feminine features and do her hair and make up to get your attention. All a man has to do to get a girls attention is be a man.

Now, if you need help in being a man, then thats different. Dress like a man, walk like a man, talk like a man. Act like a man. You'll know if theres a connection.
 
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Youve hit on something here. I am overthinking. I am very much a man and look good at it too. I am going to dress comfortable nice as I do...manly.. She will be like a reindeer looking into headlights.
Then go in to just enjoy the company. I am overanalysing.. I must clear my mind to live in the moment .That way I will be more relaxed. This will make it a more enjoyable time and it will reveal the truth.
 
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