First date making the connection?

[romanticman]

So weve I have been talking to a woman online and finally we are going to have a date in 2 weeks... The questions on my mind are that I hear that to make a connection that each person needs a physical and mental connection. Without both nothing moves forward. So lets talk guys...
Firstly I want to wear some nice clothes be groomed and looks the best I can..
How do we make a mental connection? Is physical simply the fact we like their looks? How do we give it the best chance?

 

[Ease]

You sound more interested in impressing her than trying to find a connection.

A connection means you have fun on the date, and you find her attractive. If you wouldnt rather be somewhere else, and you would **** her, then there is a connection. Who cares what she thinks.

Stop thinking, its her that has to impress you. She is the one that has to show off her feminine features and do her hair and make up to get your attention. All a man has to do to get a girls attention is be a man.

Now, if you need help in being a man, then thats different. Dress like a man, walk like a man, talk like a man. Act like a man. You'll know if theres a connection.

 

[romanticman]

Youve hit on something here. I am overthinking. I am very much a man and look good at it too. I am going to dress comfortable nice as I do...manly.. She will be like a reindeer looking into headlights.
Then go in to just enjoy the company. I am overanalysing.. I must clear my mind to live in the moment .That way I will be more relaxed. This will make it a more enjoyable time and it will reveal the truth.

 

[romanticman]

Any more thoughts ideas opinions are welcome guys