Met this girl the other day in a club. I had seen her earlier on the bus but I didn't bother to approach her because I was towards the back of the bus and I wasn't really sure where she'd be getting off. Later that night I was with some friends at a club and I happened to see her there while my friends and I were walking through the crowd. I planned on appraoching her but she was with her friends so I decided to wait for my friends to catch up to me and then I'd introduce us all in a non-threatening manner. Anyway, while I was waiting for them she reached over and touched my arm to get my attention. From there I chatted her up a bit and then we hit the dancefloor. She could really move! We danced for quite awhile, but there wasn't so much small talk as there was bump and grind. It was close to last call and she had to leave with her friends, but I got her number. I've got a date with her on Friday night. We're going for a coffee and/or dessert and then possibly heading to a bar or nightclub to hang out some more later on. Date starts at 8pm. I've already spoken with this girl on the phone for about half an hour and got alot of the getting to know you stuff out of the way. I'm a bit nervous because I think i could really like this girl. I get alot of numbers when I go out, but for the most part I'm not too concerned with what the girl thinks of me or what I should do or say. This time, however, the girl is my perfect type, physically. I can only hope there's something deeper to go with the exterior, but I'm a bit worried that we'll run out of interesting things to talk about. Any suggestions on how I should approach this so as to keep things interesting and her interest level high? Should I get dressed up? What kind of things should I ask her or not ask her? Any suggestions on where we should go? Should I go for the kiss at the end of the date? I'm usually pretty chill about these things, but I'm super attracted to this girl. Let me know if you have any suggestions. Thanks.
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First date jitters....
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shes just a ***** man, dont stress out about it. Dress appropriate to where your goin. If you dress too fancy and she doesnt youll feel like a chump not to mention looking like your trying really hard. Let the convo flow, throw in a neg or two, make jokes about yourself, ask questions bout her. Go for the kiss if your feelin it. Its not like you HAVE to kiss her so dont stress it, if it feels right do it.
Read this thread before your date, especially Starman's DeAngelo post.
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=38556
And have this phrase in mind when you're out for coffee:
"This is NOT an interview"
"This is NOT an interview"
"This is NOT an interview"
"This is NOT an interview"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=38556
And have this phrase in mind when you're out for coffee:
"This is NOT an interview"
"This is NOT an interview"
"This is NOT an interview"
"This is NOT an interview"
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I downloaded Double Your Dating and read the newsletters several years ago and have been practicing it to where I have internalized most of it. It's all about not being needy and getting girls to want to talk to you by not being like all the other guys out there. You be yourself, but you change who you are. And it snowballs into something wonderful, hot girls calling and asking when they can do something with you. And telling you how different you are from everyone else. Download the book, it's different from anything you've ever read.