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First Date Inference?

zen511

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While on a first date, a chick mentions that she had gone out with another guy two times the past month but she needs to get rid of him that the guy keeps texting..... What should I infer from that anything at all or is she trying to up her stock or something....
 

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Watched mystery show? She talks about crap like other men, tell her, that's it, you're loosing me and mean it. If you're interesting enough she won't want to loose you.


DD. Ask her how often he textes you, then tell her you're the same way. She says no you're not. Tell her, baby, all men are the same. You're not really familiar with men are you!! Change subject.


Why talk about her other men. Why stick yourself into that 1 isle category at a drug store.
 

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zen511 said:
While on a first date, a chick mentions that she had gone out with another guy two times the past month but she needs to get rid of him that the guy keeps texting..... What should I infer from that anything at all or is she trying to up her stock or something....
Just stick to your game. No need to be concerned about what she says about a guy she plans on getting rid of. Don't think you're in the clear either. She could be saying the same thing about you to another guy in a month.
 
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