"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First Date Ideas

McEwan

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Howdy!

Considering I managed to snag a young lady's interest last night, I may need ideas for what to do on the first date.

She has slight difficulty with mobility, so no dancing / physical kind of thing.

Was thinking of going for a coffee / meal idea.

Yay or Nay?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wiesman44

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sounds good to me. As long as do the dj routine, and seem interesting, it doesnt really matter where u go.
 

McEwan

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Shouldn't be too difficult to be interesting.

Apart from my love of films, music, my previous careers (RAF, Scientist, Baker), my stories of conventions and my rubbish jokes, I also have the fact that I will be thrown from a 100ft crane across the river Clyde on a zipline a week on Saturday for Heart Charities.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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go to the search engine...look up 1st date ideas by grey fox.

best tips on first dates, second dates, phone convo's ect..
 

McEwan

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Cheers guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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