"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First date ideas

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Bros I'm taking out this cute girl next week, need first date ideas with some kino involved... I'm thinking mini golf?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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24 DATING IDEAS TO KEEP THINGS FUN
by Mark ****erell


As you all know, there are many factors in dating. There are many important things to learn and practice.

Once you apply the tips in this newsletter, before long you'll start getting dates regularly and often. It's important to have some ideas of where to go on a date.

Here are just a few date ideas I've come up with and use. Hopefully this will give you some help if you are struggling to come up with some ideas.

Even if you've been dating someone for a while, it's important not to get stuck in a rut. Always keep things new and fresh. I'm sure there are many more places I haven't mentioned, but these are my most common date places:

* Lunch at a restaurant

* Coffee date

* Bowling

* Workout date - walking or light weightlifting

* Go to the park - to walk, exercise, picnic, play with the dog, whatever

* Play putt putt golf

* Go to a concert

* Go to a sporting event - basketball, baseball, football, hockey, etc.

* Go to a movie - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!

* Dinner at a restaurant

* Go to a party together

* Go to a dance club

* Go to a comedy club

* Go to a funny show or play

* Go to an adult arcade

* Go on a double date - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!

* Play racquetball - it's an easy sport to learn

* Go to church

* Go to the casinos

* Go to the drive-in

* Zoo

* Play cards or games together

* Halloween - haunted houses

* Christmas - look at Christmas lights or go to shows

* Go to the park, play a game, frisbee etc. and then get a drink/jamba juice/slurpie etc.


That's all I can think of right now. I hope that some of this helps out. Just remember to mix it up a little bit and don't get in the same routine every single weekend. Be different than the rest of those other boring guys out there.

Hopefully you can use some of these ideas if you're stuck or just want to mix things up a little bit. They have worked well for me.


I would like to thank Mark for submitting these dating ideas. Remember, when dating you always want to be fun, interesting, and unpredictable. Use your imagination and do not do what every other guy does!

Allen Thompson
 

apocolipto

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Nice ideas, I should start getting dates, k-closes doesn't fit the bill THAT WELL..
 

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"k-closes doesn't fit the bill" ----whats that mean?

If you dont k-close on a date, it wasnt a successful date.
 

apocolipto

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@Learning, I don't ever take gals out on dates. I go somewhere, we meet up(lotsa ppl) and I can kiss girls in school,and anywhere they feel comfortable.BUT, I meant I should stop kissing around everywhere, and ask a gal out on a real date, just me and her.

Misunderstanding cleared?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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