Bgarrido
Don Juan
Bros I'm taking out this cute girl next week, need first date ideas with some kino involved... I'm thinking mini golf?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
First date ideas
- Thread starter Bgarrido
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
24 DATING IDEAS TO KEEP THINGS FUN
by Mark ****erell
As you all know, there are many factors in dating. There are many important things to learn and practice.
Once you apply the tips in this newsletter, before long you'll start getting dates regularly and often. It's important to have some ideas of where to go on a date.
Here are just a few date ideas I've come up with and use. Hopefully this will give you some help if you are struggling to come up with some ideas.
Even if you've been dating someone for a while, it's important not to get stuck in a rut. Always keep things new and fresh. I'm sure there are many more places I haven't mentioned, but these are my most common date places:
* Lunch at a restaurant
* Coffee date
* Bowling
* Workout date - walking or light weightlifting
* Go to the park - to walk, exercise, picnic, play with the dog, whatever
* Play putt putt golf
* Go to a concert
* Go to a sporting event - basketball, baseball, football, hockey, etc.
* Go to a movie - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Dinner at a restaurant
* Go to a party together
* Go to a dance club
* Go to a comedy club
* Go to a funny show or play
* Go to an adult arcade
* Go on a double date - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Play racquetball - it's an easy sport to learn
* Go to church
* Go to the casinos
* Go to the drive-in
* Zoo
* Play cards or games together
* Halloween - haunted houses
* Christmas - look at Christmas lights or go to shows
* Go to the park, play a game, frisbee etc. and then get a drink/jamba juice/slurpie etc.
That's all I can think of right now. I hope that some of this helps out. Just remember to mix it up a little bit and don't get in the same routine every single weekend. Be different than the rest of those other boring guys out there.
Hopefully you can use some of these ideas if you're stuck or just want to mix things up a little bit. They have worked well for me.
I would like to thank Mark for submitting these dating ideas. Remember, when dating you always want to be fun, interesting, and unpredictable. Use your imagination and do not do what every other guy does!
Allen Thompson
by Mark ****erell
As you all know, there are many factors in dating. There are many important things to learn and practice.
Once you apply the tips in this newsletter, before long you'll start getting dates regularly and often. It's important to have some ideas of where to go on a date.
Here are just a few date ideas I've come up with and use. Hopefully this will give you some help if you are struggling to come up with some ideas.
Even if you've been dating someone for a while, it's important not to get stuck in a rut. Always keep things new and fresh. I'm sure there are many more places I haven't mentioned, but these are my most common date places:
* Lunch at a restaurant
* Coffee date
* Bowling
* Workout date - walking or light weightlifting
* Go to the park - to walk, exercise, picnic, play with the dog, whatever
* Play putt putt golf
* Go to a concert
* Go to a sporting event - basketball, baseball, football, hockey, etc.
* Go to a movie - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Dinner at a restaurant
* Go to a party together
* Go to a dance club
* Go to a comedy club
* Go to a funny show or play
* Go to an adult arcade
* Go on a double date - NOT ON A FIRST DATE!
* Play racquetball - it's an easy sport to learn
* Go to church
* Go to the casinos
* Go to the drive-in
* Zoo
* Play cards or games together
* Halloween - haunted houses
* Christmas - look at Christmas lights or go to shows
* Go to the park, play a game, frisbee etc. and then get a drink/jamba juice/slurpie etc.
That's all I can think of right now. I hope that some of this helps out. Just remember to mix it up a little bit and don't get in the same routine every single weekend. Be different than the rest of those other boring guys out there.
Hopefully you can use some of these ideas if you're stuck or just want to mix things up a little bit. They have worked well for me.
I would like to thank Mark for submitting these dating ideas. Remember, when dating you always want to be fun, interesting, and unpredictable. Use your imagination and do not do what every other guy does!
Allen Thompson
apocolipto
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Nice ideas, I should start getting dates, k-closes doesn't fit the bill THAT WELL..
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
"k-closes doesn't fit the bill" ----whats that mean?
If you dont k-close on a date, it wasnt a successful date.
If you dont k-close on a date, it wasnt a successful date.
apocolipto
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@Learning, I don't ever take gals out on dates. I go somewhere, we meet up(lotsa ppl) and I can kiss girls in school,and anywhere they feel comfortable.BUT, I meant I should stop kissing around everywhere, and ask a gal out on a real date, just me and her.
Misunderstanding cleared?
Misunderstanding cleared?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.