"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright I know that you guys have had this problem and if you havent I'm guessing you will at some point. So I've got a few potentials (numbers and what not) and I'm ready to set up for the first date, but im coming up short on ideas. For instance, I know full well that lunch and a walk in the park, or putt putt golf, flying a kite, or even having a picnic are solid ideas. Each has been approved by my female friends and putt putt and walking in a park have been field tested. My problem is, those can get boring and Im looking for somthing more unique and memorable. Any ideas guys?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A walk in the park. Don't just make it a walk in the park. Change it to your personality and lifestyle.

Do you like to show off a bit (blah blah I know showing off is bad... IF it's full blown bragging)? -- bring a frisbee/soccer ball/football/etc.

Do you like to just chill? Bring a blanket and chill with her on a nice comfortable night.

Personaly, I'd do both... since it fits ME.
 
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one of my favorite dates ever was ice skating. It just rocked my world. There's plenty of opportunity for conversation. Room for flirting and kino. plus it's an action sort of date so you're moving around doing stuff. It's just really fun.
 
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It's easy. Type "Date Ideas" in the search.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just use the 3 C's: cheap, convienient, and allow for conversation. If it fits those three things then it is a good first date.
 
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Symphony, Ballet, Opera, etc. You should be able to find affordable tickets. I love taking girls to the Opera, then usually to a disco.

Other suggestions...Art Museums/Galleries.
 
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