"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First date ideas!!! (i need some asap)

Soprano

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I need some fast!!! here are some of mine, just to contribute:

- Playing pool (so many chances for joking on her its not even funny)
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thats all i got aside from dinner and movies...:nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kal0051

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Drinks/coffee, skating, sledding, comedy club, bowling. Those are some of the ones I've done in the last 2 months. Those are good for a girl you don't know but I've done dates at my place with girls I know and who I know are comfortable enough with me to go to my place.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Activity dates. Bowling. Billiards. I don't know how old you are...in my city, there are a couple nightclubs that give Beginner's Salsa Dancing Lessons every Friday. I always thought that would be a pretty cool first or second date for the right girl.

Even going to a bar and playing darts can be a good way. Competitive stuff like that opens up the dialogue.
 
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