"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First Date Guide

priz

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I was looking around the forums and couldn't find any guide on the first date. I think this should be made into it. It'll include info on the right types of dates for a 1st, how to break the ice and make you and your date feel comfortable, etc. Post your tips here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr_rogers

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priz said:
I was looking around the forums and couldn't find any guide on the first date. I think this should be made into it. It'll include info on the right types of dates for a 1st, how to break the ice and make you and your date feel comfortable, etc. Post your tips here.
I'm 99.9% sure that there is at least one entry in the DJ Bible about first dates.
 

priz

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Mr_rogers said:
I'm 99.9% sure that there is at least one entry in the DJ Bible about first dates.
If you're so sure, find it and link me.
 

shydude

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First date!!!!! Why you need one anyways?? Its all common sense man! and there are plenty here!! PLEANTY!!! To lazy to look for any!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zerotwoonenine

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for some tips about dates, look in hall of fame, or alternatively, go to ASKMEN.COM.
 
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