First Date gameplay advice

[Bingo-Player]

Alright guys this forum seems pretty boss so thought I’d ask for a little advice

Long story short

Scored a date tonight with a real nice girl I matched with on the app tinder (if you haven’t got it get it !!)

Chatting for a little bit on that turns out we know a lot of mutual’s and also dislike a lot of mutals which made the conversation and game flow a lot quicker so got her number and took it from there

I had originally planned to date tomorrow as I would have all day to prepare and would have been nicely rested after a hard week in work

However she cancelled that yesterday as she found out she had to work until 10 and that we would “ do something soon” ( not entirely sure whether she was just nervous or generally did have work)

Anyway I texted back “ ahh right ok and a disappointed emojii” and then ghosted her reply until about half 6 last night

Then at half 6 She cracked and text me again (from my experiences if a girl does this then you must be doing something right)

Made a little more conversation before getting straight to the point and asking when she was going to make some time in her busy schedule and I also claimed that thought she was scared to meet me ….

And then bang “why don’t we do something tomorrow”

I wasn’t actually expecting her to go for it but anyway here I am I cant turn a date down with this piece she’s like a strong 8 perhaps as far as a 9 ½ all done up defenitley the hottest date ive had in a while and the conversation with her is nice

I’m working until like 6 tonight and she’s expecting me to meet her by half 7 at the latest so got virtually no time to prepare :l

Ive been on plenty of dates in the past but I normally have them planned to the T I know where im going and what im going to be talking about! But this has caught me off guard

Im just looking for something to break the ice when I first see her and also a good place to meet her initially I know where im going to take her but don’t want to meet her at a restaurant

once the conversation starts flowing it should be fine as I have plenty to talk to her about

just looking for advice on that first 15 mins

FYI- not sure if it makes much of a difference but this girl is young like 19 young

cheers folks !

 

[Bingo-Player]

well looks like no one had any ice breakers they wanted to share then

anyway eventually met her around 8 ish as she was running late with friends and i was actually glad of this because i didn't get in my self until nearly 7

she actually suggested the perfect meeting point i hadn't even considered

although i must admit i was slightly nervous , but luckily through me laying enough text game in the week we hit it off from the word go and i would say we where both more than comfortable within a half hour

the food was good and so was the conversation we actually stayed for another hour after we had finished food chatting

i then took her to my favourite bar and we had another drink and laugh

she wasn't lying she actually did have work tomorrow so it was getting late and i said i would take her back to her car

i could tell a kiss was easily achievable and don't normally try for anything further on a first date anyway i think it just looks sleazy and the sex will be far better after a little tension is created anyway

we kissed for a few mins and then i left

had a text from her about half an hour later saying how much she had enjoyed and would like to see me again soon

will be aiming for foreplay on the next date and then a bang by the 3rd

keep you posted

 

[Poop1337]

How old are you?

Take the ***** off the pedestal and take an abundance mentality. This girl is not a 9 unless she objectively one of the hottest girls ever. Maybe an 8 if she super hot. A 7 if she's your standard sexy young thing.

You should have gone for the sex and you should have gone straight to the bar.

 

[Bingo-Player]

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i don't have her on a pedestal lol I'm seeing 2 other chicks aswell as her i was just pointing out that in my opinion that physically she is the best looking I've had in a while

i did say about an 8 as standard bro but when they're done up with makeup and short skirts its hard not to say more

i dont understand the advantage of going straight to the bar ? .... plus i had been working all day and i was hungry anyway !

get what your saying about the sex and tbh if i had my own place it would probably of easily been attainable and i would have gone for it

however its easier said than done when you don't have a free place or your own place and neither does she !! ( bastard parents)

sex will take a little bit of organising on my part unfortunatley hence why i said by 3rd date