"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First Date? Come On Give Me Good Ideas

playainthemaking

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Sup guys its me again so i was wondering what you guys would recommend for a first date. There is a lot of nonsense around the net and i was wondering if people could give some input. I know the fact that it should be a action date at all times but want some ideas.

I mean lets say i plan to go bowling and i know it wont take up much time? Is that okay or should two activities be planned. I mean the date should be long enough to remember. I want to get good at planning dates and making them fun.

Basically I want someone who is really good to go into detail and include **** like kino and w/e else im missing.

Much love to the whole community
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BlakeW5

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Bowlings a good one. I also like putt-putt golf or pool (billiards). The kino oppurtunities should be obvious. Then of course there's the numerous ways you can insert subtle sexual-innuendo into any sport involving balls or a stick. What are some "action" things you enjoy? You'll have a much better date if you do something you have fun with, are comfortable with, and good at. You'll definately give a better showcase of your personality.

As far as time contraints, any of the above can last as long as you want it to. I err on the side of shorter "action" dates as it leaves me time to escalate to the real action if the date is going well. However, if you think the girl will need a little more warming up you can just bowl/golf another game. I prefer action dates where you can participate in the action at your leasure. I've always liked bowling because there's no rush. You can bowl a few frames, stop to have conversation, and then finish the game.
 

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I was going to suggest bowling or golfing like the above poster. Anything action oriented would be a plus.
 

playainthemaking

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Blake could you please go into detail into how to escalate plz. You seem to obviously know what your doing and good at noticing if shes really into u. Also could u give some examples of how to kino perhaps besides a high five.

Anyone else got comments.
 

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playainthemaking said:
Blake could you please go into detail into how to escalate plz. You seem to obviously know what your doing and good at noticing if shes really into u. Also could u give some examples of how to kino perhaps besides a high five.

Anyone else got comments.
shoot some pool
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aragon034

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my personal favorite is Rock Climbing, there are a few places around my hometown that are really friendly.

I like it since it's different from usual action dates, and since it's also a team effort, you can get some great kino and rapport going.

It's definately memorable, and the staff there gets to know you after awhile if you go regularly.

afterwards, go for a drink or a walk. or if it's not going so well, eject with prior plans.

This is only if it's an actual "date" not just a meetup, in that case Coffee date is much better since timing is much more convenient.
 

Snow Plowman

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I think all day2s should be something that is free...

Reason I say this is because for me Day2s are all about being able to keep that vibe going...is a screening process...

I had a wing who did day2s, he ended up paying for everything and at times he'd have a really crappy day2, the only time it would be good on those crappy day2s was when they were doing something.

The main problem for me is that you can use the actions to substitute for the vibe...
 
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