First Date: Can you beat this?

[BeDJ]

HB 7.5 - 5'9"

Setting up the date was very easy, very receptive to texting and calling.

The First Date:

There I am sitting at the lobby and she walks in. I stand up...HOLY FVCK. She's wearing 4" heels as I look up to her. My mojo. My game. My poor fvcking hamster was having a seizure.

I try to remain calm, thinking to myself I'm the prize. I'm the prize. I'm the prize. Then it turned into I think I can. I think I can. I think I can. It was pathetic. It was like this was my first date in years. Why was I so god damn nervous.

We order our drinks and head toward the lounge area. There was a long couch and a single comfy chair. STUPIDLY, I decide to sit on the chair. I must have lost my mind. She stutter steps as if she didn't know where to sit because she must have thought I was a fvcking retard.

The conversation was mediocre at best. Long moments to silence. Long looks at each others with smiles like two pathetic 12 year olds. Trying not to break eye contact, I crossed the fine line of creeper status. She excuses herself to the restroom. I'm there thinking to myself - Hey, it wouldn't be so bad if she ran straight to her car. 10 minutes pass, holy sh!t, I wouldn't be surprised if she did. She finally comes back. Probably telling her friends to watch out for an Amber Alert. The waitress asks us if we needed anything. I asked her if she wanted another one. 'I'm fine.' Yup, pack it up boys, we're going home. I walk her to my car since she parked 2 blocks away. She bends down to give me a hug, like a mom kissing her little boy to school.

I date rape drug myself and forget everything.

 

[AAAgent]

Happens to all of us. If you want to follow-up let her know the first date was a fluke and if she wanted to hang out a second time under normal circumstances.

How did you meet her btw?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

It was getting too easy for you....It's nice to see even BDJ can **** it up every once in a while.

IMO you have the top two or three most entertaining field reports on here. Of the ones I've read anyways.

 

[Stagger Lee]

I'm 6'1 so it's very rare for a female to be at eye level with me or taller even with heels.

But WTF is up with women over 5'8 wearing 3-4" heels? Every time I see some chicks at the bar that appear to be 6' or taller she's wearing at least 3-4" heels. It's so fuking retarded. A girl 5'9 or so is already as taller or taller than most guys, so she puts on heels that make her taller than 95% of guys.

Women over 5'9 look like Amazon lanky freaks usually anyway. When a girl is taller than me even with heels, I'm not intimidated as they look like freaks to me.

 

[Zarky]

If you're not f*cking up at least 10-20% of the time, you're not pushing yourself and not getting any better. This is the mistake I've been making for the past couple of years... dating 5s and 6s, rarely pushing for 7s or 8s. Major f*ckups are what keep the game interesting.

Never forget it, but forgive yourself and move past it emotionally. Carry on.