"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SavoIz

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Hey. My problem with attacting women comes from my inability to get the first conversation right. For instance, on a party I would do 3 or 4 cold approaches but the problem is the following conversation is usually smalltalk. For instance, last such conversation we both started to talk about our respective experiences with psychadelic drugs(she was the one with way more mileage) and that was about it. I mean the whole conversation felt like talking to a male friend of mine. No chemistry at all. Can you guys give me some pointers here? I need to learn to set the right frame.

I am especially guilty of a fatal mistake, the mistake of behaving like you are not sexually interested in her. Any pointers here how I can make her percieve me as someone who is interested in her, but not needy?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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arutha

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Tilt your head forward, raise your eyebrows a bit, grin, and keep deep eye contact while you are talking to her and make physical contact whenever the opportunity arises.

Remember, words are about 10% of your message while body language, tone of voice and that stuff is the rest so it doesn't matter if the conversation seems boring to you.
 
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