First conversation

[SavoIz]

Hey. My problem with attacting women comes from my inability to get the first conversation right. For instance, on a party I would do 3 or 4 cold approaches but the problem is the following conversation is usually smalltalk. For instance, last such conversation we both started to talk about our respective experiences with psychadelic drugs(she was the one with way more mileage) and that was about it. I mean the whole conversation felt like talking to a male friend of mine. No chemistry at all. Can you guys give me some pointers here? I need to learn to set the right frame.

I am especially guilty of a fatal mistake, the mistake of behaving like you are not sexually interested in her. Any pointers here how I can make her percieve me as someone who is interested in her, but not needy?

 

[arutha]

Tilt your head forward, raise your eyebrows a bit, grin, and keep deep eye contact while you are talking to her and make physical contact whenever the opportunity arises.

Remember, words are about 10% of your message while body language, tone of voice and that stuff is the rest so it doesn't matter if the conversation seems boring to you.

 

[Black_Italian]

lol im goign to say it again READ THE DJ BIBLE then post your problems.