"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First clubbing experience: A stupid, stupid lesson learned.

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lets_do_this

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Ok, so oh well. I was a guest at this club.

All was good, I got free admission, free drinks with 1 of my friends (guy/wingman).

All was good.

I was seated, music was good. 4 girls approach the 2 of us.

1 of them was really really into me. So we talk and talk for like 20 whole minutes, good convo.

My wingman left, the other 3 girls left the scene also, leaving the 2 of us alone.

We still talk and talk, trading convo for 15 more minutes.

I was waiting for the right time to # close. Ofcourse, a convo so good. A # close was sure!

Right?

No... Couple minutes later my friend gets back on the scene.

Then the girl probably thought, "This guy is never going to ask for my #.."

She gets up and tells me, "I am going to go look for my friends ok?" (Figuring I'd never ask for her #, she leaves the scene)

I reply with, "Okay"

5 or 10 minutes later, she goes past me and waves.

I thought she waved just for the sake of waving. But that wave meant goodbye, and I never got her #. :(

Oh ****, this feeling is ****ty.

Well, a stupid lesson learned by me. Ask for the #.

Yeah, stupid. I know. :( Damn.

Please don't flame me, I feel bad enough.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Hey thanks!

il be goin out clubin meself tonite so il be sure to keep that in mind.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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