Fingering Tips?

[Blackhole105]

So Friday night I was making out with a girl and we were getting pretty physical . We both had our shirts off, and eventually I got her bra off.

I started to slide my hand down her pants without any resistance from her so I assume I had the "green light" to start fingering her. Since I had no idea what I was doing I just got to the rim and pulled back.

 

[L777]

Yea, also make sure to wet your fingers first...

A good thing to do is David Shade's deep spot technique....cos not many guys know about it....google it and test it out!

 

[everywomanshero]

Fingering Tek:

1) Lick your fingers to moisten them. Astroglide would be better but it's not practical to carry around and may be a bit of a mood killer with someone inexperienced.

2) If you need more moisture, rub your fingers down towards the vagina to get some fluid without having to remove fingers.

3) I don't go straight for the ****. I just rub the lipps and stay to the sides of the ****. It should get bigger as she gets horny. SOme are small, some a really big, no worries about size. You can also massage the outsides of the area which is supposed to increase blood flow.

4) There are numberous techniques. You can have a finger to each side of the **** and stimulate it with a light rub/vibrating motion. Once it's hard you can actually grab it (not hard now) with your thumb and index finger and she will pop her hipps to get stimulation. Remember the **** is 3 deminsional sensasory, the sides are as important as the tip.

5) While this is occuring be doing something else that turns her on like necking her, suckle the tatas, make noises in her ear, or whatever else works for the two of you.

6) If she's a LTR, you could also try using a vibrator.

7) There are classes the teach these teks and more, I think they cost around 800$ in the bay area. I would think an escort should also be willing to give lesson, probably cheaper but perhaps not as informative, if that is legal in your area.

 

[War Against Betaism]

I didn't even realize there was any techniques, I just put my hand down there and blast away lol.

I read this somewhere, but I never actually experienced it yet. When you're fingering a girl, you'll usually feel a hook if you move upwards, which is the pubic bone. Around that area, if she's aroused enough, you'll feel her g-spot which is the size of a nickel.

 

[Bible_Belt]

wab is right.

Also, you should be rubbing her a lot outside her clothes before you get inside of them.

 

[Leporello]

Trim your nails. For love of god, trim your nails.

 

[everywomanshero]

I read this somewhere, but I never actually experienced it yet. When you're fingering a girl, you'll usually feel a hook if you move upwards, which is the pubic bone. Around that area, if she's aroused enough, you'll feel her g-spot which is the size of a nickel.

Yes, I have felt the spot on several women. It feels sort of spongy to me, and I don't think it's hard to find. Most women have seemed to enjoy the sensation, and I often have combined it with tongue action.

I have had trouble getting the squirting effect, though. I am trying to find a "known squirter" to practice on. A few times during intercourse or fingering (before I read anything about this stuff) I felt a huge gush of liquid, but since it was dark and I wasnt expecting it, I am not sure if it was a squirtting effect or not. Anyway, if anyone is consistently getting squirting effects, Id like to know the steps being taken.

 

[DJDamage]

Remember to start slowly, start with your index finger and if you feel she is getting more moist and your finger is going in more easily, add your middle finger. When you reach far enough try curve them with the "come here motion" and keep at it. The most important thing is to gauge her reaction, slow down and pull half way if you see her scrouching her face in discomfort because you are hurting her (although for first time if you aren't sure its best to just ask "you like that?" because what may seem as discomforting signs can actually be pleasureable for her).

If you do this right she would either want you to fvck her right there or she would reach and jerk/suck you off.

One more thing, if you are not a deep sea diver you can still get her off with your two fingers and your tounge licking her cl1t.

 

[Chaotixxx]

Its real hard to do it WRONG. As long as youre moving your fingers around in there she will like it (unless shes a desensitized wh0re), but if you focus on the ¢lit and g-spot she will go crazy.

 

[Bvbidd]

You gotta make sure you suck on your finger a bit before you do it.

A lot of retarded guys don't do that, and hurt the girl turning her off on fingering when I come along.

 

[Guoy Darko]

Tease, tease, tease.

Start off with kissing and softly biting her lips/neck/ears whatever. Softly breathe out or blow in her ear/neck. Then slowly go down with your hand, but remember SLOWLY! I mostly start off with just teasing her and 'walking' around with my fingers around her vagina without touching her lips and ****. This teasing will get her totally wet. I only start fingering her when she's so wet her panty's are soaked. To check how wet she is I always use a finger gently touching the lips as if I was checking soup on the temperature.

After she's wet enough you can do whatever gets good feedback. I usually try out whatever comes to mind. Use one or two or three finger to get inside her and then for instance rubbing her **** with your thumb. Or make 'scratching' movements on her G-spot. I don't know if it exists or not, but I give it the benefit of the doubt. Make sure you have short fingernails with no sharp sides. Or you can get your thumb inside her and make rotating movements. I switch a lot in techniques. Rarely use one longer than 30 seconds. Most of the times I combine fingering with oral sex. You have to ask this to her because not all girls like this.

Once you notice she starts to *** she probably wants you to concentrate on the **** completely. Start rubbing it fastly with your fingers. She will tell you how hard is too hard. Or when you use your mouth start licking it fast or start sucking it. Simultaniously I use some fingers to move inside and outside her. Fast.

Oh, haha, one good addition is, when you start fingering her is to put your knees between her knees and spread them as wide as you can. This will spread her legs and also her vagina open. You have more space to use as much fingers as possible and you can do basically everything better. It's best to have her pants off by this time. Also, don't do this too soon as she will maybe feel like a slut or uncomfortable when she's not completely horny.

Well, that's it. The last time I did this to a girl she told me afterwards that I was "really gifted". I miss her.

But never EVER just put your hand down there and start rubbing her ****.

 

[Guoy Darko]

What? I can't say cl*t or c*m? What the **** is up with this site?

 

[Serialized3]

What? I can't say cl*t or c*m? What the **** is up with this site?

Because you don't have certified DJ status, you clit-sucking cum-dumpster

Anyways, to "Blackhole" (oh the irony):

WAB and Bible_Belt are right, you should get her properly excited once again before you try to get your hands down there, and once they are down there, if you can keep kissing her and stimulating her with your other hand, even better. Try to find her g-spot, it's usually up towards the 11-1 o'clock range, and don't be too rough with her, you can tear stuff down there.

Also, make sure your nails are trimmed and filed!

 

[Bonhomme]

tease, tease, tease

 

[young_gun]

Rub the outside of her pvssy for a little while, then insert 1 or 2 fingers inside her, depending on how loose she is. Go slow at first, but when she wants it faster and harder give it to her. She'll be begging you for sex in no time.

When I first put my fingers in, I put them in so my fingernails are facing down (towards her feet). But I discovered this thing that drives every girl crazy I've ever done it to. What I'll do is I'll take my fingers out, turn my fingers around (so the fingernails would be facing her head) and angle them down just a little bit. Once I'm there, I rotate my fingers around in a circle, pretty slowly at first, and then a little faster. Usually you can feel some soft, round thing towards the back of her pvssy. It drives them NUTS. What is that round thing called anyway? Does anyone know?

 

[Bible_Belt]

I was making out with this chick the other night, and she got so wet I could literally smell her pvssy as I was sitting on the couch next to her. We ended up stopping before any clothes came off, although I rubbed her enough through her pants to feel that she was completely soaked. My hand smelled like pvssy all night just from touching her outside her clothes - and btw this was a good kind of pvssy smell, not some rotting tuna stankness.

If you take your time and turn her on enough, it will be very obvious what she likes, because she'll moan and groan when you finally get to her good parts. I got that girl so wet without even touching her down there, by taking my time and teasing her. If you want to stimulate an area of a woman's body, in this case her pvssy, go everywhere but there and tease her around that area until she is begging you to touch her there. Anticipation is everything; it is very powerful. Most guys are in a giant rush - honkhonk, diddle diddle, "ok, let's fvck." Don't be that guy. Make her beg you to do more, and she won't be stopping you from going farther with her.

Oh yeah, and I second the 'trim your nails' advice. Wash you hands if they are dirty as well. If you cut her with sharp nails, or give her an infection with dirty hands, that area will be off-limits, so this is all in your best interest as well.

 

[Bible_Belt]

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[Ace of Flames]

If you take your time and turn her on enough, it will be very obvious what she likes, because she'll moan and groan when you finally get to her good parts. I got that girl so wet without even touching her down there, by taking my time and teasing her. If you want to stimulate an area of a woman's body, in this case her pvssy, go everywhere but there and tease her around that area until she is begging you to touch her there. Anticipation is everything; it is very powerful. Most guys are in a giant rush - honkhonk, diddle diddle, "ok, let's fvck." Don't be that guy. Make her beg you to do more, and she won't be stopping you from going farther with her.

QFT

Especially the part about most guys being in a rush. I don't get it. You work so hard to get the girl, and then when you finally get her in bed, and are about to reap the fruits of your labor... you hump her like a dog in heat and cvm as fast as possible. How stupid is that?

For me, sex isn't about cvmming. That's just the end result. Sex is an experience. I try to drag it out as long as possible, enjoying every sensation I can get out of it. And I don't just mean my own good feelings. Probably the thing I enjoy most from sex is getting her off. I will always do plenty of foreplay for my woman. I genuinely WANT to finger her and eat her out, because I know she'll return the favor two-fold for me, both with sex and with love. My goal from sex is to totally and completely satisfy her, and in doing so, I'll satisfy myself.

Perhaps more guys should adopt this mindset about sex.

 

[Serialized3]

I enjoy the foreplay as much as the sex, maybe even more.

One of the reasons that I hardly ever get LMR. :woo:

 

[Guoy Darko]

Because you don't have certified DJ status, you clit-sucking cum-dumpster

Oh, haha! And how do I get this status?