Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
De nada.thefonz said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Finger Strength??
- Thread starter thefonz
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Here's a decent way to get started on finger strength. Find some thick books (at least three per hand, and try to make the total width even for each hand) and hold them between your fingers for as long as you can. The goal is basically to prevent the middle book from falling out. Try to find books that have slippery covers so that the friction between the books doesn't help you out.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol, I just tried that with my pinky fingers and my arm right up to my elbow spasmed and locked.Sean O said:
Great endurance workout