Finetuned my post seduction game with amazing results

[Jariel]

Well, I've just had a little purging session and ditched 3 of the girls I was seeing. It feels pretty bad and they seemed really gutted, but better that than stringing them along.

But the interesting part of this is that I'm now seeing my past mistakes from the opposite perspective. I started out being really into some of these girls, we had great fun together and great sex, but by coming on too strong they just started to lose their appeal and repel me.

In the beginning, it was great to get a flattering text, talking about how much they like me, how they couldn't wait to see me and so on, but after having sex, those messages started to make me feel kinda claustrophobic.

There's no rational thought behind this, but I found myself less attracted to them. Literally!

Maybe that's my own fvcked up psychological issues or maybe it's just human nature. But now I can really see how I must've appeared to the girls I was really into and how they must've felt when I text them or called them in the days after sex, laying it on too heavy.

 

[SamTheHobit]

That's what happens when you go straight to ****ing, and not build a relationship first.

 

[Viagra4Soul]

There's no rational thought behind this, but I found myself less attracted to them. Literally!

you're joking, right? This is ENTIRELY rational! :yes: This is the lion of the jungle, on the hunt, f#cking all he can get and walking on.

You're in a non-LTR frame of mind. Of course cloying affection will repel you.

No mystery. If this is what you want, you're doing it exactly right.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I think attracting and keeping women long term simply comes down to validation. Women have a need for validation from men and when you eliminate this validation you become a challenge and more attractive to them.

As a general rule:
1. Never discuss future dates while on the first few dates.
2. Don't call after the date to make sure they arrived safe or to chat after the date.
3. Do not friend request them on Facebook after a date.
4. Do not come bearing gifts or take them out on expensive dinner dates until after you've slept with them.
5. Be emotionally aloof until she reveals her feelings for you. No "i love you's" "I miss you's" until you've got them hooked.
6. Don't discuss your future together. Make her wonder where she stands with you.