fine line ljbf

[djbegin]

since i'm a newbie dj, i was wondering what is the best way to avoid walking the fine line between ljbf and more. also if you are already walking that line, what would be the best way to get away from it. thanks

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Go into the bible and read the nice guys versus jerks posts....

 

[DankNuggs]

If your hitting on someone your friends with already, stop. Go hit on other people and establish yourself as a sexual being...don't be one of those guys who only hit on/hook up with girls and friends of girls in you social circle

 

[Kodiac]

Back when i was AFC -

me "Thanks for coming over Karen"
karen "No worries, what are friends for"
me "....." (thinking..WTF!!!")

further on in the relationship -
i bought her some flowers and delivered them to her at work, myself - it took some balls, especially infront of all her friends!
karen "Thank you, you are soooo sweet"
me "Thats what friends are for!"

I kinda got some revenge on her in that instance, but, i was just doing what my gut told me. Basically i wouldn't have been in the same situation if i knew then what i know ie Being a DJ.

I wouldn't have thanked her for coming as I would have kissed her close instead!
I wouldn't have bought her flowers, she would have bought them for me!

Thats my example.
Just be sexual, be a man, know you want more than friends and go get it!

 

[Santos]

Originally posted by djbegin
since i'm a newbie dj, i was wondering what is the best way to avoid walking the fine line between ljbf and more. also if you are already walking that line, what would be the best way to get away from it. thanks

Um, well I kino and make sure I joke sexually with them. For example, when I am joking around with her, and we're alone in her room, lying on her bed - I'd say things like "I can't control myself, I have to take you now!" , get's her laughing, but she can't help but think about it after.

Another example, I find out she's got a tatoo, she makes me guess where it is, it's fun. When I get it right (it's on her left side, close to her groin) I ask if I can get to see it. She's like "maybe, one day" and teased me about it later on, by peeking down her jeans. I know this turned her on.

Tease them, DO NOT BE AFRAID TO BE A MAN. Trust me, they don't want you to be NICE. If they think you don't want sex, or are afraid of sex they think you're a WUSSY. Remember that all women think: "All men ever think about is sex.". If you don't speak about it, you're probablly not thinking about it, you aren't a man. Women want sex as much as we do, they're just more picky about who the sleep with.

Of course, nothing over the top like "You have great knockers, can I play with them?"

My examples, might not sound too great. But you have to be there to see how well they work. It's basically being C & F but about sex . Think of your own stuff, open your mind. If you have a good sense of humour it'll be easy.

Have fun!
Santos

 

[Santos]

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