"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finding Yourself

MakingMoves

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Hi, guys long time lurker here, I've read the DJ bible, been laid, understand all the concepts pretty well but there is something else that's been bugging me. Im a true believer in improve yourself and it will improve your game(from my experiences)but the term "Finding Yourself" has been thrown around before and im looking to some answers pertaining to that.

I believe most people will drift through life without ever being really honest with themselves and just doing what is "cool" or to get by. I have no desire to be one of those people, im looking to push myself and looking for any material on finding "inner peace" with ones self and being honest.

Some material I've read and enjoyed is books and audio form OG Mandino. However im looking for material along that lines that deals with things like meditation and "Finding Yourself" or "Becoming a Man"(note im not looking for a guide like "do this and this and you'll be a man" more along the lines of things to ask yourself and consider.

Sorry if this seems disorganized i dont really know what you what classy this as or if what im looking for even exits?

NOTE: I also have a hunch some people will say what im describing is simply living life, learning, and evolving in witch case i was wondering if anybody has any autobiography's on great men that have lived or experiences shared. Also maybe this should be in the Mature Men's section as im looking for advice from older men, that would consider themselves successful.

Also if your going to call me a fag for looking for things on meditation or that nature stay out,thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Galactus

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Hi MM, I am not really into meditation, but I commend you on your desire to improve. I don't know if this will help you, but I always get inspired when I watch this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLN2k0b3g70
 

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Finding yourself = finding happiness. where you feel you belong and are your best at. There is a saying that you can try and act and be like somebody great, but you won't ever be that person. You can only be as best as MakingMoves can be. Always be the best MakingMoves possible. That is what I believe is finding yourself.
 
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