"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Juggerr

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I've been going to a local gym for awhile at around 6 in the morning since my classes start pretty damn early. The place is almost deserted at this time and I'm sort of wondering... what's the best way to find someone to spot for you? None of my friends want to wake up early in the morning and my schedule is packed in the afternoon. Any suggestions for early risers?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Juggerr
I've been going to a local gym for awhile at around 6 in the morning since my classes start pretty damn early. The place is almost deserted at this time and I'm sort of wondering... what's the best way to find someone to spot for you? None of my friends want to wake up early in the morning and my schedule is packed in the afternoon. Any suggestions for early risers?
Not alot of people like morning training. Your out of luck bud.
 

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make friends at the gym

if there is some trainer just sitting around befriend and make him help you
 

elvis aint dead yet

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At 6am, your lucky if a few people are at the gym, and you would be even luckier if those few people actually would be able to spot you.

I've belonged to a few gyms, and most of the time, at 6am or earlier or even a little later, the gym is relatively empty and quite.

There are those gyms that might have a more crowded atmosphere, but the majority of people do not come to the gym at 6am.

So either hope that you can meet a few people who can spot or hope that the trainer/desk people can help you.

The gym I'm at now, the trainers and desk people are there for one thing, to pick up chics. They spend more time on the treadmill then hitting the weights.

But good luck.
 
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