"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finding out INTEREST LEVEL

LegendBoy

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Hey guys, now how can you find out the interest of a girl, without saying " do you like me" LOL.

I am being serious there is this girl i got number off and talk too, but I want to find out if she is interested, ye she laughs heaps when we talked and stuff and is generally nice.

But i really want to know if she thinks I am hot or not. EG i made her say something in another language in a msg and i msg back sayn something like, what you said means "Your hot" and the next msg she included " You wish" considering I got the number two days ago would you take this at face value?

I honestly think I am too good for her but I would not mind seeing how far I go.

Put it simply how can you find out if there attracted too you, without ****n askn and no I am not gonna try kissing her after barely known her.

Thanks guys PEACE>
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shezz is right, there is no way to know because sometimes even the chicks that are dying to fux you won't show it one bit. The only way you know... make the ho say "no".
 

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Vulpine said:
Shezz is right, there is no way to know because sometimes even the chicks that are dying to fux you won't show it one bit. The only way you know... make the ho say "no".
This is so true most girls that want you real bad wont say, 'yeh I think that you are hot,' there are exceptions, I have had several of those 'exceptions' but for the hole it doesn't generally happen. When someone asks me if a girl likes them, I usually tell them to go with their gut instinct. My gut instinct has never failed me yet:p
 

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dude, you can totally tell if a girl is digging you and feeling you just by the way she responds to you.It's plainly obvious if a girl likes you or dislikes you- very similar when you meet people and you can kinda sense if you're on the same page or not as you.Genuine interest is not easy to fake but it's easy to spot..if i were you i would just hang out with her and have a good time with it no matter what happens..you can tell the level of interest and how much she likes you by how much she responds to you,if shes one of those 'hard to get' types..have fun regardless of her at the same time show active disinterest..push her off her throne and show her how much fun it's down here with the regular folks! in the end that's all their after anyways..the ability to enjoy themselves in the company of the right guy..if it's fun and the vibe is right,most girls don't care..unless they are really stuck up- in that case they usually have more issues than you would even want to deal with!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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in a msg and i msg back sayn something like, what you said means "Your hot" and the next msg she included " You wish" considering I got the number two days ago would you take this at face value?


Girls will say this to bust your chops (in a playful manner) or to test you and see what you are made of. Don't let this throw you off, instead come back with a witty comment, knock her down a couple of notches.


dude, you can totally tell if a girl is digging you and feeling you just by the way she responds to you.It's plainly obvious if a girl likes you or dislikes you- very similar when you meet people and you can kinda sense if you're on the same page or not as you.Genuine interest is not easy to fake but it's easy to spot

I agree with this 100% Watch how she behaves, her actions, regardless of what she 'says'.

Example: I've always had a thing for girls who wore glasses. There was this hottie who always wears contacts (she hated wearing glasses) that I know from the gym. One afternoon she 'had’ to wear her glasses (something happened to her contacts, who knows). Anyway, I made it aware to her how I felt about girls who wore glasses. So what did she do? She started wearing her glasses every time she knew she would see me (in the gym mostly).

These are the small hints that you need to pick up when it comes to women. They won't always come out and make it obvious

I honestly think I am too good for her

If you truly believed this, you wouldn't be asking about her comment.
 

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Thanks for the replies guys.

I don't want to ask her out, because i go same school and if i want i can hang out there enough. I mean I told her we can chill at school during periods when we both dont have classes and she is yes.

Making it hard it kind of boring to ask her out.

"PREPARE FOR THE WORST THE BEST WAY WILL ALWAYS HAPPEN"

I think I have to really lower my expectations though I have a feeling I wont get rejected. WE shall seee. THere is this other girl at my school I am going to get her number too. Hahah my school is fukn wierd I reckon both of them willl find out I got the other numbers.
 

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LegendBoy said:
Thanks for the replies guys.

I don't want to ask her out, because i go same school and if i want i can hang out there enough...
So why would you care if she's interested or not if you're not even interested? :rolleyes:
 

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I am though, I don't want to go anywhere until maybe I finish school 4eva then I might ask her out which is in 1 month or so well my exams start in 40 days ... UNI ENTRANCE EXAMS.

So I just want to hook up at school in the next 3 weeks. Would someone reject a kiss attempt and still be interested?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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organizedconfusion said:
*sssshhhhh..he's expecting the worst so that the best intended outcome may happen;) ...

i think he likes her
*wink
*wink
:D
Ohhhhhhhh, I get it.... So what's next, is he going to run up behind her, pull her hair and run away?
 

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That would be a lot better than simply thinking about it. LOL
 

LegendBoy

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Seriously what is with all these silly remarks, this place is like a circus sometimes I would just like more input.

Im think of just when im wid her to try massagin then kiss neck and see how that goes dunno what else i can do to find out if i am wasting my time, i reckon she likes me but I ain't gonna get all sure until im sure. lol
 
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