"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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finding my balls again

K2000kidd

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Has anyone here reached a level where a woman walks by and they just yell DAMNN. Giving her a clear FkMe signal as opposed to where i am now sheepishly telling my buddies what i'd like to do with some woman walking by while checking her out and hoping like hell i don't get caught. LOL

Do women dig the "PIG" or do you have to be a certain type to pull it off. I'm slowly getting better at approaching and have tons of respect for guys like this. But I always feel like i'm gonna get slapped.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Plec07

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What you've described is somewhat of an art. Women like to be checked out, but they don't like to feel like an object. You have to make them feel like they're being 'admired'.

Don't be loud and obnoxious, give them a nice glance over and be charming about it, check out their face more than their body and smile and then approach. Be sexual, but don't be a pig.

A woman loves a man in a suit who whispers an appreciation in her ear about her curves. She hates a builder who yells to get her tits out.
 

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In latin america and europe..yes ...tell her how good she looks as she walks by.. In USA nooooooooo. Never raise a girl's self steem because she will leave you thinking she can do better than you.
 

Tiguere

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You don't want to turn them more narcissist than what they already are.
 
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