finding it had to make girl orgasm?

[lordson]

my gf doesn't come that often during sex. its either me or her, who knows, but the fact is that she doesn't

anyway, today we decided to try something else; reverse cowboy with her leaning back towards me. and she came in like a minute and a half

with minimal foreplay too

so thats a good position for anybody whos interested.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Good tip! I like reverse cowboy aswell,kinda like doggie only you don't have to do any work .It's all about hitting her gspot,another great one is missionary with her ass on a pillow(and actually aiming "high").

Cheers

 

[azanon]

Well the tip should be, if the position you're trying isnt getting results, then try something else. That one worked for her, and helped her hit her g-spot, but in other cases it might be another position.

Its not just the girl that varies; its also the guy. Guy's can curve up, down, or even to the left and right, so that can cause the need for different positions too. I imagine a guy's build can matter too.

 

[realsmoothie]

Just so everyone knows... only 20% of women come from intercourse.

Most need some kind of direct stimulation.

And some can't come at all.

 

[dot]

Just so everyone knows... only 20% of women come from intercourse.

Most need some kind of direct stimulation.

And some can't come at all.

how is intercourse not direct stimulation?

 

[typical]

Just so everyone knows... only 20% of women come from intercourse.

Most need some kind of direct stimulation.

And some can't come at all.

Yea plz elaborate (spelling)

 

[edmond]

First of all, stop thinking that it is your fault, most of these women have so much crap going through their minds that you will need a jackhammer just to loosen them up, and 300 Liters of Hydraulic Oil to get them slightly wet.
So if she is unable to have an orgasm, do not let it worry you, as long as YOU have a great time

 

[realsmoothie]

OK... THIS is why intercourse is not stimulation:

The ****oris is the MAIN part of the female body that must be stimulated for the woman to achieve orgasm. Simple intercourse.... "f*cking"... does not do so, unless you really know what you're doing. Your **** is going in and out, but the ****oris is OUTSIDE the vagina and soes doesn't really get affected. It usually takes your fingers or your tongue to get at the ****oris.

Some girls get off from the guy getting at the "G spot", but this is a difficult objective. The "G spot" lies about 1 to 1 1/2 inches deep on the anterior of the vagina wall. You get get at it by putting your finger inside the girl's vagina and doing a "come hither" motion.

To be fair, though, and largely by my experience... a girl will NOT come unless you have made her comfortable enough beforehand. There's this crazy mental/physical connection between a woman and her *****.

But again... just for the youngsters out there.... it is VERY rare to be able to just f*ck a girl and have her come all over your wang. I know that all manner of popular fiction, film, and pornography has you thinking that all you have to do is throw yourself in there and pump away, and all of the sudden the girl will come all over the place, but that's not reality.

There's TONS of literature, much of it on the internet, about this already.

This isn't to say that girls don't like f*cking. They love it. It might not make them ***, but it certainly is the pinnacle of the male/female connection. Just having the guy feel good inside her is a great boost for so many women... just enjoy the ride, man.

Sorry if this seems pedantic. But a lot of young guys here are probably overestimating their sexual abilities.

 

[matygee]

i've made my girlfriend *** on several occasions man, you just gotta **** it right put your whole mind/body and soul into the ****ing like yo mean it and let her know it too.

 

[HBK]

Its to my opinion that you can make a woman cumm 100% easier if you play on the mind aswell,Also stop worrying about trying to make her cumm. Remember its 50- 50 deal here. If she is open to talking during sex, then through a few little dirty sayings 2 her. Its appropriate for once to talk dirty haha

If you work on her mind and body then you should have no problem here. Make her feel relaxed, loved, sexy and she can trust you, and also give her a good DJ seeing too then she'll explode!

 

[Dearl]

They have a stimulation oil out now that you rub on the ****iris that keeps her turned on for 24 hours. That should do the trick. Get it by all your sexual stuff at walmart or something. (By the condoms, viagra, etc)

 

[diablo]

DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them.

Moved to AE.

 

[All The Answers]

DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them.

Moved to AE.

horrible moderation - he didn't ask for a tip, he gave one

 

[Paintballguy]

But again... just for the youngsters out there.... it is VERY rare to be able to just f*ck a girl and have her come all over your wang. I know that all manner of popular fiction, film, and pornography has you thinking that all you have to do is throw yourself in there and pump away, and all of the sudden the girl will come all over the place, but that's not reality.

Exactly... The whole key is getting them so worked up that they can't stand not having sex with you. I usually achieve that with making out, kissing their neck, going down on them, etc. If you do it right, they will be begging for your ****.

The last girl I had sex with was calling me a tease when I was making out with her. lol

 

[Buck Rogers]

Whilst for us gents, sex is the pinnacle of physical activity and completley mechanical,

For most women, sex has to have some kind of emotional attatchment in order to ***.

We, will come regardless (usually) but women need to feel completely in the moment.

On the other hand, what makes some women ***, might not make the next. No big deal. Plus a lot of them fake orgasm anyway.