"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Finding it ever harder to distinuish the line between "flirting" and fighting me off

Toast123

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Luckily, as a fairly conifident alarmingly handsome Israeli of African descent, I have very few of the troubles posed on this forum.

But this comes with its own set of issues, issues of which have become a problem of late.

Some women like to play, they like to tussle and they like to challenge the beast that the man is meant to be. And so this naturally crosses over into the sex life.

Now my problem is usually to do with the kiss/sex close. Most women often play the hard to get game with all night, but I know from the look within their eye that they are very interested the majority of the time (wide eyes, playful frown) and so I find it easy to gain the confidence to make my moves.

A lot of the women that I have tried to close, or have closed in upon have come with a great deal of what I guess we would physical game, namely of the hard to get variety.

Often I shall make the kiss close, or try and go further almost straight away (confidence and ambition make a girl very dripping) in order to seal the deal and mark my territory. But this is where I struggle to understand the boundries.

MANY of my jealous friends have stated that I am not inside the "order" and that I take things "too far" (even though often I make the close wherever the girl may be, sometimes as I walk her home to indicate spontaneous desire and overwhelming self assurance)

Some of these women have become almost violent, often initiating very very hard handed "kino" against my body and face as I attempt to introduce them to a night of Israeli bred pleasure (with an African tinge of ectasy down below)

My question is this. In order to be SURE as to when the move is right or whether I have travelled "across the line" (even though I RARELY take the women across the border at all.) as they often say, what signs can I expect? What is the difference between a girl being a physical challange and an actual, albeit impossible to believe, lack of attraction?

Many thanks.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I attempt to introduce them to a night of Israeli bred pleasure (with an African tinge of ectasy down below) 

Does this mean that your top half of your body it's Israeli and you're African from the waist down?

Just need to clarify so i can tailor my advice accordingly.
 

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My friend, I am African where it matters.



Which is on my head. Women love a man with full hair, and so my African curls shall last a lot longer than other men my age, thick durable hair is good at resisting all the pulling and tugging these women often engage in during their resistant kino.

My soul is Israeli, which has gifted me with strong resilience against all odds, a highly tuned compass and the ability to handle my money in a way that allows me to impress many a woman on a night out or on a date.


Also, side note, I have a large penis. Trimmed of course. That has always been a great bonus in the war for the Gaza Strip of a woman's desire.
 
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