"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Finding girls to approch is fukin hard.

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I didn't realize looking for girls to approch was so difficult. I walked around my community college campus and went to the mall to find them.

Easy ones to approch:

1)Girls sitting alone or with a buddy (eating or studying)

2)Girls that give you eye contact and respond after you say hi to them as you are walking by each other.


Now for the hard ones, members with more experience please give me advice.

1) Girls that are walking by you and don't give eye contact. (A LOT)

2) all I can think right now....give a few minutes
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hurrican

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so I suppose I am the only one having trouble finding chicks 17-21 that are easy to approch?
 

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Um...girls that walk by you and don't give you eye contact don't want to be approached by you.

Stick with the ones that are "easy" as you say.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Since when is a girl deemed "Unapproachable"? Unless shes hardcore lesbian, you can work your way into any situation.
 

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Hurrican said:
Life sucks.
Way to be positive buddy, girls will flock to that attitude! :down:
 

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ok then bros, enlighteen me on how you would approch a chick walking the opposite way without giving eye contact. What would u say? (and have one instace where u got her to give you her number)


This would be easier if my face wasn't ****in god damn ugly. I got very good game at keeping girls but its hard for me to get girls initially. I even had a model gf for months.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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will you guys all chill-out... we're here to help each other right?

anyway, stick to stationary targets. moving targets are whole different ball game.

i'm waaay rusty on approaches, but focus on girls sitting by themselves for now, it's much easier, and you want to take high-percentage shots. don't just approach for the sake of approaching. go for quality in your interactions, rather than quantity. yes, it's a numbers game, but don't just half-ass your approaches...because that will make the numbers much worse.

btw, what part of cali are you at? i'm in san luis obispo (central)
 

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Hurrican said:
how you would approch a chick walking the opposite way without giving eye contact. What would u say? (and have one instace where u got her to give you her number)
As she is walking towards you, slightly take a step infront of her. This will make her KNOW that you are definately going to say something and you won't just get ignored.

You have to start with something that she's expecting, "What's the time?", "Where's Room 101?". Now you're in, she's a part of the conversation now. You could even slowly raise your hand slightly to indicate that you're not finished with her.

After she replies you can go into something else. A tease, a routine a comment, anything that gets her talking. It would be an ideal time to say something that she laughs at. Then you work your magic.

-AudiTy =o
 

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interesting....have you tried that audity?

I won't ask something lame like what time it is but stepping in front of them is a bold move. I am guessing most of them will get annoyed if u do this unless you are super hot.
 

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Not at all, just do it subtley. It's just to communicate to her that you're definately going to talk to her, so she better be prepared for when you do.
I don't mean jump right in front of her and start waving your dyck in her face.

If you're in doubt of what to say, asking for the time isn't such a bad idea. You could say anything really it's not important, what's important is how you follow up. The aim is just to get her to acknowledge you, once you're in you just run some routine or whatever, just use your imagination.

-AudiTy =o
 
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