"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Finding girls to approch is fukin hard.

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I didn't realize looking for girls to approch was so difficult. I walked around my community college campus and went to the mall to find them.

Easy ones to approch:

1)Girls sitting alone or with a buddy (eating or studying)

2)Girls that give you eye contact and respond after you say hi to them as you are walking by each other.


Now for the hard ones, members with more experience please give me advice.

1) Girls that are walking by you and don't give eye contact. (A LOT)

2) all I can think right now....give a few minutes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so I suppose I am the only one having trouble finding chicks 17-21 that are easy to approch?
 

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Um...girls that walk by you and don't give you eye contact don't want to be approached by you.

Stick with the ones that are "easy" as you say.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Since when is a girl deemed "Unapproachable"? Unless shes hardcore lesbian, you can work your way into any situation.
 

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Hurrican said:
Life sucks.
Way to be positive buddy, girls will flock to that attitude! :down:
 

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ok then bros, enlighteen me on how you would approch a chick walking the opposite way without giving eye contact. What would u say? (and have one instace where u got her to give you her number)


This would be easier if my face wasn't ****in god damn ugly. I got very good game at keeping girls but its hard for me to get girls initially. I even had a model gf for months.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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will you guys all chill-out... we're here to help each other right?

anyway, stick to stationary targets. moving targets are whole different ball game.

i'm waaay rusty on approaches, but focus on girls sitting by themselves for now, it's much easier, and you want to take high-percentage shots. don't just approach for the sake of approaching. go for quality in your interactions, rather than quantity. yes, it's a numbers game, but don't just half-ass your approaches...because that will make the numbers much worse.

btw, what part of cali are you at? i'm in san luis obispo (central)
 

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Hurrican said:
how you would approch a chick walking the opposite way without giving eye contact. What would u say? (and have one instace where u got her to give you her number)
As she is walking towards you, slightly take a step infront of her. This will make her KNOW that you are definately going to say something and you won't just get ignored.

You have to start with something that she's expecting, "What's the time?", "Where's Room 101?". Now you're in, she's a part of the conversation now. You could even slowly raise your hand slightly to indicate that you're not finished with her.

After she replies you can go into something else. A tease, a routine a comment, anything that gets her talking. It would be an ideal time to say something that she laughs at. Then you work your magic.

-AudiTy =o
 

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interesting....have you tried that audity?

I won't ask something lame like what time it is but stepping in front of them is a bold move. I am guessing most of them will get annoyed if u do this unless you are super hot.
 

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Not at all, just do it subtley. It's just to communicate to her that you're definately going to talk to her, so she better be prepared for when you do.
I don't mean jump right in front of her and start waving your dyck in her face.

If you're in doubt of what to say, asking for the time isn't such a bad idea. You could say anything really it's not important, what's important is how you follow up. The aim is just to get her to acknowledge you, once you're in you just run some routine or whatever, just use your imagination.

-AudiTy =o
 
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