jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
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Around the 12-minute mark, John discusses a crucial aspect about women...
He suggests that while one type of woman might make you feel comfortable, another might bring discomfort, and that, in fact, it is better to end up with the latter. During your difficult moments, she will remind you of your responsibilities, urge you to stay the course, and push you to be a man of integrity who keeps his promises.
(But, from my POV, it is also true that there are women who bring discomfort, but, women choosing difficult, "broken" men, hoping deep down that they might change, and spending the entire relationship, right up until the breakup, trying to fix them, rather than simply choosing a better man from the start.)
Around the 21-minute mark, he begins to argue that a "6" (on a scale of 1 to 10) is a better choice than a "9" when..
"9" who would leave you the moment she discovers a man with an 8-pack instead of your 6-pack, or a bank account of 2 million instead of your 1 million, is simply superficial. Therefore, he argues, you should judge a woman based on who she truly is, rather than how she presents herself to you. In this sense, it’s as if John still believes a man holds the power to determine whether or not a woman is "good", wheter or not He can see behind her mask.
(In my POV, women can change, and yes, she might very well leave for a guy with more muscles, or that he is more attractive, when the relationship gets tough. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. Does that make her a "bad" woman? Not necessarily; she is simply a woman, acting on her impulses.)