"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There is this girl I am really into, but I am not sure how interested she is. We have hung out a few times, I guess they would count as group dates, and we se each other/hang out at school everyday. We also talk on AIM pretty often. It is hard to set stuff up with her right now cuz she is at the end of her soccer season and is really busy with playoffs, and u know how girls sports are where they have ****ty bonding stuff (so she's busy for like the next 1-2 weeks alot.) Basically I just want to find some way of knowing if shes interested in me quickly so I can either keep pursuin her, cuz I see her as gf status, or move on to the next chick in line especially since i need to find a prom date soon (I have other girls, this isnt oneitis, i just need a method of finding where i stand.) She isnt a very outgoing touchy feely person, but wat kino there has been she has responded to. I am tempted to just ask her if she is interested...any thoughts or ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is there anyway of not coming off totally AFC yet still asking where I stand?
 
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