Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ladodger32

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There is this girl I am really into, but I am not sure how interested she is. We have hung out a few times, I guess they would count as group dates, and we se each other/hang out at school everyday. We also talk on AIM pretty often. It is hard to set stuff up with her right now cuz she is at the end of her soccer season and is really busy with playoffs, and u know how girls sports are where they have ****ty bonding stuff (so she's busy for like the next 1-2 weeks alot.) Basically I just want to find some way of knowing if shes interested in me quickly so I can either keep pursuin her, cuz I see her as gf status, or move on to the next chick in line especially since i need to find a prom date soon (I have other girls, this isnt oneitis, i just need a method of finding where i stand.) She isnt a very outgoing touchy feely person, but wat kino there has been she has responded to. I am tempted to just ask her if she is interested...any thoughts or ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is there anyway of not coming off totally AFC yet still asking where I stand?
 
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