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[nilescrane]

99 percent of the posts on this site are "How do I get her to like me?" "There's this one girl..." "She won't answer my calls" "She told me her pet bird is dying of a tropical disease, should I give up?"

You can't change the way a girl feels about you once she's already made up her mind. If she has little or no interest, she has her reasons, and chances are, she's dating or f*cking another guy while you're calling her desperately asking her out for the 100th time.

Even in the rare opportunities men have taken a girl with little or no interest and dated her/f*cked her, it doesn't last long, the girl thinks "I was fooled" and then goes back to her original emotions.

A lot of guys could make their lives a lot easier on here by giving up on that "one girl" that isn't answering their calls and going out into the field and meeting a new woman that's just as good looking and is interested in them.

 

[Solomon]

Hey Niles I like your other thread where u talk about getting your shiit togther first you know working out, and making sure you on top of your game

I think 50% of the members if they worked out their testosterone level would boost up making them more aggressive

Just my thoughts

 

[tafakna]

The problem is: Vasopressin and Oxytocin.

People invariably want to win the heart of people that they want, and not of random girl X...

While I do agree that many cases are lost, and many people would benefit from chasing a better girl, there are certainly ways to make someone fall for you...

 

[nilescrane]

Solomon,

What helped me wasn't so much the physical workout as much as it was "not giving a sh*t" anymore. There are two ways to go about his, and only one is the good way.

1.)You can't "not give a sh*t" but still be an AFC. I saw these two young kids check out some milfs booty, and she was holding her daughter's hand. He kept saying really loud "Look at that ass." So he runs up to her from behind, sneaks up on her, and says something, I'm assuming he asked her for her number. She says no and has a scared look on her face and quickly turns away. Does that take balls? Yes. But it isn't the good kind of not giving a sh*t.

2.)Then take my brother for example. He used to be really shy. Now he works with the general public and says he has milfs come in there everyday. He goes out of his way to make conversation with them, whether it's about the music ("Oh this was probably a big song when you were younger?") or just commenting on their outfit or their mood. He's more outgoing than he ever has been.

I was also referring to men that want results when they are basically frustrated little boys that aren't only unable to talk to women, but don't even like themselves.

I know a couple guys that live at the gym, have developed decent bodies, but they still hate their lives and are George Sodini's in the making. I'm not saying the gym doesn't help, but I'm saying you also have to work on your personality and mindset too.