spider_007
Master Don Juan
what program do you use to track you spending.... and all other stuff (even graphs).
i'm trying to do it in eccel, but eccel is gay
i'm trying to do it in eccel, but eccel is gay
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
May I ask why you want to track your spending? I mean what is the purpose?Originally posted by spider_007
what program do you use to track you spending....
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do you mind my asking "why"?Originally posted by spider_007
i like to know haw much money i saved (or lost) every week, month, year......
-keeping track of haw much you make/spend gives you an idea where you'll be in 2-3 years.
-it keeps you from spending what you don't have that week (not that my account is ever under the limit)
-it gives you a big picture on what you spend and where you need to cut corners.....
-it gives you the ability to see if you'll be able to take that vacation you been planing for last five years (blaaa)
yes i know, some smart ass is gona come on here and tell me "your thinking like a poor person....bla bla bla.." I'm a neat freak, i like my sh!t organized
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You spend $1200 on booze. Ok. When you were spending it, were you aware it was $1200? That it will add up to about that sum? Or you feel when you spend $300 a week for booze it is just well.. "nothing"? and it will not be anything substantial?Originally posted by Docs
Holy crap, I spent $1200 on booze this week, $200 on chips and pop, I lent buddy $100 - Reason enough?
Why do you want\need to know how much money you will have in 2-3 years? You know yoru salary, you can easily come up with a crude estimate without tinkering with numbers every week.
Changing circumstance, having a amount to save up without using credit/loan
What keeps you from spending is your the way your think, not your calculator. Right?
If you put the money where it belongs (car, savings, bills/rent, FOOD), the LEFTOVERS is piss-away money.
Even buy something big and find out you're short at the end and have to credit it up, exactly the case.
To save up an amount every week over time to amount to your estimated vacation costs (or goodies).