"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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financial information - real estate, investing etc.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yendor28, the first step to smart investment is financial literacy. I Go to the business/self-improvement section of any major bookstore, and before you consult a broker, buy stock, or do ANYTHING, educate yourself.

The best single book on investment is Benjamin Graham's "The Intelligent Investor". Get the most recent edition because it was originally published in 1959 but is updated every 5-6 years. Its highly detailed and gives both specific and general advice. Graham is a bit conservative, but after half a century, its still one of the best. However, this book deals mostly with stocks and bonds, and says very little about real estate, where the real fortunes are made.

If you haven't already, learn how to interpret financial statements and calculate ratios. Know the difference between speculation and investment, technical investing and fundamental investing.
A really great place to start is the Rich Dad, Poor Dad series. I was skeptical because I believed that the author, Robert T. Kiyosaki, didn't get rich until he wrote those books. I was wrong. He made himself into a multi-millionaire and retired at 47 before he ever wrote the first one.

P.S Don't buy any books from Suze Orman or Motley Fool. They don't know their asses from their elbows.
 
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